i dont know if i'm going to make sense with this.. i don't wanna be mushy or anyting..  i just want to share my insights bout waiting for someone.. (eww..) hehe..

my friend and i were texting this morning and she shared to me bout her latest date with her suitor.. she said that he (her suitor) introduced her to his mother and to his  brother.. my friend was really flattered.. but she admitted one thing.. SHE STILL DOESN'T FEEL THE "SPARK" WITH HIM.. she thinks that maybe it was because, subconsciously, she compares her new suitor with her ex.. (by the way, they broke up 2 months ago).. though it was her ex's fault, she admits that she still love him.. actually, i saw this friend of mine cry over that guy.. she really got hurt.. but now, she is starting to move on.. according to  her, her new suitor brought her smile back.. i can see that she's happy.. but she is hesitating bout giving herself a chance of falling with this guy.. she's worried bout what other people might think since she just got in a relationship.. i gave her pieces of advice.. i don't know if she really agreed with what i said.. but for me, other people can think of whatever they want.. but what would make her happy is important.. two words... WHO CARES? these people can't make her smile when she's alone and crying right? but her suitor can.. and obviously, she likes him.. im happy for my friend.. at least she did not wait for that long to be happy again.. yes, her feeling for her ex-boyfriend is still there.. a year and a half of being together can't just be thrown into trash.. but its just a proof that some good things don't really last.. her ex caused her too much pain.. and for me waiting for him to be back to his "old self" is just a waste of time.. she keeps on thinking and waiting for that time to come but the result? nothing.. as in no change happened.. he just bacame numb and kept on hurting her.. so i told her that that's enough.. it's bout time for her to be happy.. and fortunately, this new guy came.. just in time..

just a couple of minutes ago, another friend of mine shared bout his lovelife.. yea, a guy friend of mine.. what's happening to these people? they're all in love! haha.. but his problem is, he's just inlove with the thought of being inlove! -- don't get confused.. its because this guy doesn't have a girlfriend and he's not even courting someone.. but he's tired of waiting for that girl to come.. he wants to have a girlfriend.. he wants to love and be loved..   he thinks that he's just getting older and older but still single.. (but hey, he's just 22 years old.. is that too old? 'coz for me it's not) so i told him that first, he's not that old.. and it's okay for him to be single.. it's still normal right? hehe..  a lot of people out there are also single.. and waiting.. it's just a matter of patience.. we (yea, im also single.. haha..) don't have to be pressured with the people around us.. we should take time in choosing the person worth our love.. and when that person comes, we should take care of him/her and cherish every moment that we share together.. that's it.. thanks for taking time to read this.. i hope i made sense.. hehe..

later..